Saying I LOVE U doesnt mean anything if the person that say it doesnt mean it.. love is not easy, but hate..is too damn easy...

HATE...LOVE... how ironic... when u love someone u love so much... but.. when u hate... u hate so much also... everything must be extreme in this HATELOVE thing... why don people just love but not hate? before u get married, u will love yr spouse so damn much until u willing to give yr life to her/him. However when u get married, when u fight and have misunderstanding, hatred developed as each other get annoyed of each other. and then.. there a divorce... hatred developed more and more there... why cant we just love and not hate?is it too hard to be done? but... as living in this world.. the hardest thing to do is to love somebody fully but to hate fully.. no problemo... Ironic?